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What is the most constant ritual in your life?

Posted on Aug 26th, 2008 by martha : wildlygentle martha
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for August 25, 2008:

Hummingbirds
Open my eyes, check the time.  If it's before 7 a.m., sometimes I'll think, "Tragic."  Other times I'll let it go.  Oh well.  Find my slippers, let the dogs and cats out.  Grind coffee beans, make coffee.  While coffee brews, go to driveway to find newspaper.  If newspaper is under a vehicle, which it is about half the time, I get down on my hands and knees and reach way under the car to get it.  Then I wonder why the paper "boy" keeps asking me for a "tip."  Oh well.  Then I think, "It's a beautiful morning, really.  Stop and enjoy it."  So, I look around.  The trees, the sky, sun, breezes.  There's a park just right over there, and then eveyone's front yard.  There's the tall pine tree across the street.  This morning there were four or five hummingbirds in our mulberry tree.  They were making a lot of noise, saying Chit!  Chit!  Chit!  Chit!  I really didn't know they could make that much noise.  Wow! 

I go back inside and put the newspaper on the kitchen table and make a bowl of Naturally Preferred Organic Healthy O's with blueberries and soy milk.  By this time the coffee is done, or almost done, so I make a cup of coffee light with Splenda.  Then it's time to eat the cereal, drink the coffee and read the paper.  Because the majority of people in my state are of the opposite political persuasion from me, and because our President is, too, and because I know a lot of stuff in general, I get Really, Really, Really upset half the time when I read the paper.  Arg!  (little pirate thoughts).  So then it's time to ask myself whether it really helps to get upset.  I think about how I can put my values in action today to make a difference.  I think about how our Governor doesn't get upset with idiots, no matter how inane and reckless their ideas and accusations are.  I renew my vows to Be the Change and let go of my negativity (the renewal usually lasts me at least until the next morning).  I put my dishes into the sink knowing that I want to go to work, or be with my family, and do a good job.  I let the dogs back in.  I go to tell Mike how the dogs and cats are.  

Breakfast is my favorite meal.  I love how simple it is.  I love how my mornings are always the same.

Hummingbirds Feeding


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maze : ordinary
about 5 hours later
maze said

soy and splenda & healthy O's what a combination…I hope you at least look good in a bathrobe bending over to pick up your newspaper.

Enlightened.thinker : Light-plerker
about 7 hours later
Enlightened.thinker said

I love how you exlained this in such a simple and beautiful way….

lovely….made my morning!

:)

Nicole : wakingdreamer
about 8 hours later
Nicole said

i love you! wonderful hummingbirds, too… hugs

martha : wildlygentle
about 9 hours later
martha said

I look like the Goddess Herself, Maze!  :)  ((((((HUGS)))))) to you!

Hi Aley!  I remember breakfast at your house, all relaxed and beautiful trees, sky and breezes.  Hope we can enjoy breakfast time together again.

Hummingbird hugs to you, Nicole!  Your heart is as light and full of spirit as one of those little zoomers!

Resurrected1 : Ariela -Quantum Leaper
about 22 hours later
Resurrected1 said

~Hugs Martha~ looking cute in her robe and slippers…fun morning ritual. Right there with you, lol.
Some stability in the ever-changing world…Finding your own Center. Very nice.

(*whispers*… please find something natural to sweeten your coffee with…cuz I love you!)

Nishtha : Imaginative Mellifluous Philosopher
1 day later
Nishtha said

martha, beautiful hummingbirds! and just think, they are That beautiful and they pretty much live on a diet of SUGAR!!

per Resurrected1's comment: have you tried Stevia? If you're worried about diabetes or some such thing, it's a natural sweetener that's better for you than cane sugar or honey… just a thought!

Hugs,
N

Resurrected1 : Ariela -Quantum Leaper
1 day later
Resurrected1 said

~Hugs Nishtha~

Yes, Stevia is the sweetest plant on Earth! Faaaar better than anything else, I agree~~<3

sea-sh-elle : one planet one karma
1 day later
sea-sh-elle said

 i am reding your words as when you sit next to me with a mug coffee.. love it .. how is opal..naughty boy … zaro is

martha : wildlygentle
1 day later
martha said

Ariela and Nishtha–yes, yes I've been thinking about Stevia more and more these days.  I will give it a try.  Ok.  Thank you for your caring thoughts and suggestions.

Andrea, glad you're enjoying that mug of breakfast coffee with me!  Ooo  we could have some breakfast coffee in Italy!  How about that?  Opal (who is a girl, by the way) is still so very naughty.  She licks everything and jumps up all the time, and she EVEN pooped in the house this morning.  And she hasn't done that in a few months.  But we love her!  :)  Hoping your doggie likes his stay while you're traveling.  They always know where we are, you know.

jenni : hello
3 days later
jenni said

I had no idea that humming birds made a noise. I usually am lucky enough to see one a time- in my bee balm. They love bee balm.I loved your blog and so funny to think of you having to go to all of that trouble to get the paper. You would think the paper guy would be more considerate. there is that word again.

mimi : MOONCHILD
3 days later
mimi said

beautiful blog piece, martha - one of the best ever.  something amazing has happened recently - your writing has become very simple and beautiful - with an wonderful flow, simply telling us - and letting us enjoy the experience with you

martha : wildlygentle
3 days later
martha said

Hi Jenni,  Yes I used to think hummingbirds don't make noise.  Well, I've been wrong about a few other things in my life, too…  :) 

Mimi, honestly I haven't noticed a difference at all.  I'll think about that.  Thank you for your thoughts.

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