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Danita the Apple

Posted on Aug 23rd, 2008 by martha : wildlygentle martha
Applelove
OK, weird how there IS no Q&R question today. 

I've had requests for a blog about Danita, and I wasn't going to do it, but could there be a clearer sign than this?  I guess my Q&R "Q" of today is:  Write about Danita

It's difficult to write about your beloved friend, because you want to share the stuff that makes your experiences with that person so cool, but you don't want to break any confidences or say anything too personal, so how can I write this?

Danita, you see, is a radiant warrior of the Heart, and a shining Star.  She is my true sister from another mother.  She once told me that I can be "mousy," and it's true.  She's really annoying, and she's also absolutely right when she observes things.  She is a rehabilitative psychologist.  She helps people with severe physical or psychological setbacks to find new ways to live and thrive and create a good life for themselves.  She is also a psychology teacher in the community colleges and my beloved colleague.  She is a brilliant teacher----a kickass teacher with a huge heart, tremendously smart, wise, compassionate.

She loves chocolate, videos, going to movies, traveling, the ocean, Jesus, Elvis, her children and her dad and her stepmom, Eglee, who is a super-cool lady in her own right, and her brother Christopher, and her beautiful grandchildren.  She loves to play guitar and sing, and we like to sing together.  We like Carole King.  She taught me how to create this great incense-type room deodorizer by sprinkling a little cinnamon on a hot stove burner and letting it smoke.  Give it a try!

About three years ago she and her dad were bringing some pizza and chicken to a student end-of-the-year party on the last day of school at one of our local community colleges.  A car, driven by a drunk and high woman, ran a red light and T-boned their car on the passenger side.  Her dad had been driving and she was the passenger.  They had to remove her with that "jaws of life" thing.  The woman had no insurance, and she disappeared into the mists of the cracks where people with unaddressed pain and deep issues slip into, in our society, and nobody has seen or heard from her since.  Danita says that she would just like to get the woman to apologize to her some day. 

Now, three years later, she is still dealing with back issues, and with all the things that can be impacted by back issues.  Who knew?  I won't get into the details, but you'd be surprised.  The back can affect all your internal organs.  Anything it wants to.  It's not the ecological trigger point of your body that you'd want to mess with. 

But that's not the major thing about Danita.   She is all about her work.  In addition to the above information, she has her own nonprofit organization, called Whiteapple Institute.  The goal of Whiteapple Institute is to make sure that every person in the world, every child in the world, gets an education and the opportunity to earn their own livelihood with dignity and fairness.  For example, in some countries if a person has a physical disability, that person is condemned to a life of begging on the streets, and would never have a chance to learn to read or anything like that.  Danita works with groups around the world to give opportunities to children who wouldn't have them, to learn to support themselves.  She is sort of a "rehabilitative psychologist to the world," as well as a clear and insistent voice for human rights.

And that's Danita.  Apple.  In a nutshell.  Please send her Love and Light as she battles her infections.      Now WHEN she gets them under control,   THEN  she will get to have an operation to stabilize her back, so that she can get her life back.  Please help her out with that, too.  OK?   Thank you deeply from my heart.  And Danita thanks you for your friendship.

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Enlightened.thinker : Light-plerker
about 5 hours later
Enlightened.thinker said

What a beautiful blog Martha for a truly magnificent lady!

It was my pleasure to meet and call Danita my friend in Oregon when we were at the Gaia retreat. She is not only a brilliant and wise woman, she is courageous and brave in her determination to not only become healed, but to complete her PhD while she has been facing these health concerns.

Keith and I love her spirit, and she plays a fantastic African drum and kicks ass at Scrabble from what I hear!

Danita, we are sending you love and healing energy…we know Martha will bring it to you and we stand behind her…thanks for writing this Martha…we all needed to read this lovely tribute to your best friend!

And we need you to know we are sending you the strength to help her in her hours of caring need.

Big big love!

Aley and Keith

maze : ordinary
about 10 hours later
maze said

sending her a loving and forgiving heart.

Centria : Full Moon
about 10 hours later
Centria said

This is a really beautiful tribute, Martha, to your friend.  She sounds like a very special person, indeed, who has shared many gifts with the world.  I am praying for her recovery from this latest challenge.  She is lucky to have a friend like you who sees & honors & loves her so deeply.

Sherrilene : Living Ever Closer to Excellence!
about 11 hours later
Sherrilene said

Oh! Danita is my hero! And she looks so Apple-y also! I hope she wouldn't mind me adding her to my friends list! I'm going to write her now.

Thanks for sharing the Apple of your eye, Danita, with us!

Love you Martha. Sherri

ayla : Illuminated Skye
about 13 hours later
ayla said

What a beautiful face your Apple has, Martha. Thank you for sharing this tribute to let us in on her beautiful soul as well.  I've been reading the Oregon trip blogs and remember wondering at first who “Apple” was, so this was just lovely for me to read as well.

Sending Apple love and healing and much appreciation for all she is and does.  May she be blessed with perfect health soon - immediately even!

Thank you, Martha. 

xo Ayla

martha : wildlygentle
about 14 hours later
martha said

Thank you, dear ones, for coming along and reading my blog.  And silent readers out there, you can send Danita Love and Light also, right?  Yeah.   

Aley, I think of you often, and of the wonderful times we enjoyed together in Seattle and also in Oregon with Danita.  If it weren't for you and Keith, of course, Danita wouldn't have been able to be with us in Florence, and we thank you both so much for the beautiful memories we have.  When Danita is in great pain, she says the word “Florence.”  That's how much it means to her, and to me.  You and Keith are angels!

Hi Maze, love you, and thank you for your thoughts. 

Centria, yes, I'm sure you and Apple would have a wonderful time together.  Maybe we will do just that, someday.  Thank you for your healing energies!

Sherri, Believe it or not, Apple and I were talking about you just before this latest bout with the grimness factor, and I was saying, “You mean you don't know Sherri?  Well, you'd love her!  I'll get you her contact info!”  I think you guys would enjoy each other greatly.  Thank you for your Love energy and support.

Hi Ayla!  I have to apologize, because I know you've been going through so many things lately, and I don't think I've commented at all.  I have sent you Love and Light.  Here you are sending positive energy to Danita!  Truly we are all uplifted and healed as we help each other to do the same!  May Love and Light be with you, little Ayla! 

MorningStar : Seeker-Traveler
1 day later
MorningStar said

Nice job on this, Martha! You really captured Apple's essence here. I really feel like I know her better now (and you, too). She's doing some really important work, and I think that's wonderful. She's got an amazing heart, mind and soul…and it's an honor to have met her and to be her friend! :)

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