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Boogie Man and the Five Genders

Posted on Apr 10th, 2008 by martha : wildlygentle martha
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Above is a beautiful yatch, the Silolona.  Inspired by ship building traditions of the Bugis, a native seafaring people of Indonesia, it's the type of ship which, during the 19th century, transported brigandry, arson and murder throughout the south seas.  "Beware the Bugis man," was the watchword, and today we speak of "The Boogie Man."

 "He had a nasty reputation as a cruel dude,
They said he was ruthless, they said he was crude."

Besides bloody pirate stories and beautiful boats, the Bugis can give us something else-- an innovative system of gender.  This blog is an extension of a discussion that started earlier today below, which I'll summarize here as efficiently as I can.

Let's start from the beginning, just to be clear.  Sorry if this is a review:  Sex is the plumbing; your biological aspects relevant to the perpetuation of the species.  Your body's sex organs determine your sex.  Gender is the social role expected of you based on what sex it looks like you are.  And that role varies from culture to culture and time to time.

While traditional Western culture teaches that people are male and female, masculine and feminine, the Bugis have five genders:

    makkuntai - feminine woman
    oroane - masculine man
    calalai - masculine female - a female who feels "largely male."
    calabai - feminine male - a male who feels "largely female."
    bissu - transgender shaman

In creating catagories for the calalai and calabai, the Bugis have created a system that can accommodate wider variations in "psychological sex"--that which Jung called "animus and anima," the way people think, and how they feel about themselves as men and women. 

This discussion has arisen out of psychological tests that we've been taking:  the EQ/SQ and the BBC gender test.  On both tests several of us have scored equal in terms of male and female qualities of mind.  This is a dimension (anima/animus) that I usually refer to as "psychological sex." 

Please remember that psychological sex does not predict, or statistically speaking, does not “vary with” sexual orientation.  That's a whole 'nuther subject.

OK, so after all that, here's why I really wanted to write this blog:  Traditional societies influenced by Hebrew traditions have insisted on rigid and polarized interpretations of human sexuality and very limited and polarized options for gender expression.  Perhaps, taking a cue from societies in many other cultures and eras, we could explore the idea that gender ambiguity, or gender inclusiveness, within a single ego identity, is indicative of, or shows a potential for, advanced spiritiual growth, experience, and leadership. 

Of course, I'm not suggesting, as some social systems automatically assume, that simply because a person is born as an intersex person (hermaphrodite) or is attracted to people of the same sex, or both sexes, that the person  is automatically "spiritually gifted."

What I am saying is that gender is a subtle and multifaceted state of being.  It's like an artist's medium.  Sexual expression, erotic feelings, ecstatic experience, bliss, femininity, masculinity, expression of humanity and the human identity--all of these things are so deeply, dearly the essence of the human experience itself.  All of these possiblities and modalities are a potential gift for exploration through and by the human spirit. 

I think that humanity is evolving toward an awareness that will allow us to live as human beings and to explore our sexuality and expressions of humanity in many ways.  We can be inspired by the Bugis to think about sex and gender more creatively and variously, but we can also create, through the artistry of our lives, ways of being human that are quite the opposite of cruelty, and move us into roles that help us maintain loving and peaceful ways of life.

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Art  by L. Filipe Dos Santos


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wanderer7 : wanderer7
about 1 hour later
wanderer7 said

nice piece of writing!  what the western mindset has taken so long to catch up with is the concept and “feminine” and “masculine” energies.  These are distinct from “male” and “female” genetics.

so yeah, you have your blokes (who like footy), your chicks (who like gossip), your effeminate fey guy (who's “sensitive” and “poetric”) and then your tomboy girl (who's maybe into your sports and sciences).

very fine point about sexual iorientation!  there is a difference, and sexual habits can definitely be aquired (just look at prison populations).

the key point is about the masculine and feminine energies.  And if you are daring enough, you can look into the astrological signs and see what traits they have … particular leanings towards certain energies and so on.

but that's another story :-)

martha : wildlygentle
about 2 hours later
martha said

Yes indeed!  It all gets so very interesting!  :)

Peridot : heart center
1 day later
Peridot said

Wow Martha! Way to go! I applaud you and love this blog! It is information that needs to be taught in every kind of way in our educational system. I do hope that this is some of the information that you share in your classes?

I took a class in my graduate program that taught this spectrum … that there is a continuum of sexuality. What I'm finding more and more interesting is that no matter where you fall on the continuum … it doesn't really have much to do with who we are attracted to - and who we fall in love with in our daily lives.

Yes, I love embracing my more “masculine” traits …  Though I always wonder  who defined those traits as masculine? Who determined that men were the hunter/gatherers. I need to go back and revisit this information from another perspective. Thanks for opening the door - Cap'n Jack!!!

Isn't there an ancient society/culture somewhere where the women were the warriors? Or was that just all make-believe and myth … Xena against the bad guys and evil montsters?
or Greek mythology?

love you,
peri

martha : wildlygentle
1 day later
martha said

I think (but I'd have to revisit the subject) that the Amazons were actually a tribe where the women were the warrior sex.  And I've read about Native American tribes where women could be warriors if they wanted to be… but not sure which and how…  And then there were Celtic warrior women.  I do like the Apache system, where the men couldn't go do a war unless the elder women gave them permission.  I'm pretty sure we wouldn't be in Iraq today if we had used that system! 

Yes, I do open these subjects, but it's at the “opening” level.  Because I teach so many “first” or “first year” college classes, I get students who actually think that if they read something 'Buddhist' and they believe it, that they will “go to hell.”  Gently, gently, gently.  You know?

Jw : cre8iv  :?)
2 days later
Jw said

Great blog Martha. Interesting how language defines a culture. And really things are not black and white. I'll have to ask daughter Lauren about women warriors. She's interested in such things.

martha : wildlygentle
2 days later
martha said

Please let me know what she comes up with!  It would be really cool to get some leads on that subject!

kcidybom : Manager - Bank of Cosmic Connection
2 days later
kcidybom said

Just wanted you to know I visited - great blog, and as you know I'm one of the other 'exactly in the middle' scorers on the BBC test.  I'm at work now but will come back with more as soon as I can.

martha : wildlygentle
2 days later
martha said

I look forward to your thoughts, lil' duck!

Starseed : Lovesong
18 days later
Starseed said

Great!  Thanks for posting this!  I was trying to recall the popular pop psychology book from the '80's about Amazon women…ah, cannot think of it now, but this takes the concept to an entirely new level…after seeing Thomas on Oprah who is a pregnant man I am seeing that The New Earth that Tolle writes about requires us (especially in the Western world ) to broaden our concepts.  Amazing!


martha : wildlygentle
18 days later
martha said

Thanks for your thoughts.   Just started reading Tolle's book, and am looking forward to it. 

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